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Reflections on how we feel and how the mission is changing us

Day 5: A Shared Experience

Walking up this morning was hard. Although we are a bit sore and tired, the idea that it was the last day (and that once we were up and out) meant that our trip was coming to an end.

Rebecca's Restaurant in Falfurrias, Texas.
Rebecca’s Restaurant in Falfurrias, Texas

Last night, we decided that for our final field day, we wanted to write our last day blog post all together. This trip was not only an amazing, immersive learning experience, but we found ourselves relying on each other as a team, and understanding each other in different ways. Our trip was a successful one, and we are so grateful to have had this experience. 

After scrambling to pack our bags and get ready for the cold temperatures today, we met Don, Ray, and Socks in the parking lot and drove with them to Rebecca’s restaurant. There, we ate amazing breakfast tacos and waffles while discussing our plan for the final field day, and talking about our favorite moments of the trip so far. 

After breakfast, we loaded up in the trucks and drove out to a ranch our team has not yet searched to start our last field day. Due to hunting on the ranch, we were constricted to a four hour searching window before we had to be off of the property. 

Frankey

On our last day, our goal was to cover part of a fenceline within a 2,300 acre ranch. The fence line seperates two ranches. On the other side is the ranch we wanted to search on day one but could not because of hunting. Because the brush along the fence was so thick, it was important to inspect just inside the tree line as that is where people would find respite from the openness of the two-track that travels the fence line.

Bent fence from individuals crossing
Bent fence from individuals crossing

One thing we noticed was the state of the fence itself. Because they are expensive to repair, the evidence of migrants climbing them and places that are popular crossing points are extremely evident. When looking for an active path that migrants are using, examining expiration dates on foods and the state of the artifacts is essential. For example, today we found several food and drink containers, one that expired in 2008, another that expired in 2024. We also found completely rusted cans alongside newer cans.

Women's blouse
Chastidy holding up a woman’s blouse

Because of these finds we know that this is and has been a relatively active path and this will be helpful for Don’s future searches. Finding food and drink containers is one thing, but we also uncovered multiple items of clothing. From a woman’s blouse and an army jacket, to a newer looking pair of boots, the similarities between ourselves and the migrants who walked these paths before us becomes clear. It becomes prominent in my reflections personally to think of what I would leave behind if I were in that position. My favorite sweatshirt or my most comfortable tennis shoes? What would cause me to leave those behind? I cannot consider these things without putting myself in their shoes and I only feel more drive to assist and compassion for their situation.

Army jacket
Army jacket

This week we have experienced only part of the physical hardships they endure, barely in their shoes, but enough to know that their journey deserves to be shared. I cannot think of a better group to have gone through this with and that is a privilege unto itself. These individuals possess an incredible strength to go through what they go through, and when I see the pictures of the artifacts they left behind I feel their strength, and my resolve to continue this work is reinforced. 

Lilly

After we left the ranch we began driving towards the morgue, which Don wanted to show us. Before we got there, however, we stopped at the shrine of Don Pedro Jaramillo, a curandero faith healer who lived near Falfurrias for most of his life.

The outside of the Don Pedrito Jaramillo Shrine.
The outside of the Don Pedrito Jaramillo Shrine.

The shrine was similar to that of a church with a cemetery around it, but the real beauty came when we stepped inside the small chapel and came face-to-face with the legacy of Don Pedrito. A small, quaint room, filled with statues of Don Pedrito and Jesus, photos of loved ones who needed healing, a space for people to leave pictures of soldiers, and a small area set for candle lighting. Various kneeling pews were also scattered about the room, for use of any who wanted to, or needed to.

We had been laughing and joking on our way over, though when we entered the shrine it felt like everyone was quiet, likely out of respect for the area that we were in. It was comfortable, not a sad place, but rather a place of remembrance and further contemplation. I said a small prayer in my head before leaving, but who I was praying for I am still not certain, perhaps for the team, perhaps for the migrants, perhaps for Don Pedrito himself.

A wall decorated by those who visited the shrine.
A wall adorned by those who visited the shrine.
The outside of the morgue at the Falfurrias Detention Center.
The outside of the morgue at the Falfurrias Detention Center.

After we left the shrine we headed straight to the morgue, little more than a temperature-controlled shipping container, a far cry from the morgues that we are used to both in Indiana as well as in our hometowns. But, as it was explained to us, this container is actually a luxury for areas like this: smaller counties currently dealing with large-scale caseloads. 

As we stood before the container, just after visiting the shrine, I was struck by how different yet connected the two felt. Both served as resting places: one, a permanent site lovingly adorned by those who remembered him; the other, a temporary shelter for unnamed individuals still awaiting their identities for remembrance. Despite their contrasting purposes, they were located just minutes apart.

Makenna

Back at our hotel, we were able to start packing our luggage. We piled all our leftover snacks to give Don and Ray and determined which animal bone souvenirs from the field we could cram into our suitcases. We piled in the car and made our last trip to our beloved HEB. We grabbed some side dishes, dessert, and Fritos for our homemade dinner with Don and Ray at La Copa North Ranch (I also purchased some Dramamine to prepare for our flights back home to Indiana tomorrow).

Frankey and Socks.
Frankey and Socks.

Don met us at the gate of La Copa to unlock it and we made our way inside ready for a classic Texas meal: Frito Pie and cornbread. Here we were able to catch a glimpse of Don and Ray in civilian clothes and it felt odd to see them out of their usual tan gear. Socks greeted us with jumps and plenty of kisses as we entered the trailer where Don and Ray stay.

The trip was nearing its end but we all felt like it only just began. All together for the last time, we reflected on our trip. What do we wish we had brought? What are things we learned? What memories will we never forget?

Listening to and laughing with Don, Ray, and my teammates has filled me with such joy and emotion. This trip has been absolutely life changing and I couldn’t have asked for a better group of people to share this experience with.

Chastidy

The 2025 Beyond Borders Team.
The 2025 Beyond Borders Team.

As we said our goodbyes and hugged at the edge of the ranch, we all held back tears. Even though we can’t be here all the time, this trip will stay with us forever.

Thank you to all of our faithful readers and wonderfully generous sponsors, donors, and supporters of the Beyond Borders Team.

Thank you to Deputy Sheriff Don White.

Thank you to Paramedic Ray Gregory.

Thank you to our wonderful advisors, Dr Krista Latham and Dr Amandine Eriksen.

Thank you Falfurrius, TX.

Until next time…

Frankey, Lilly, Makenna, Chastidy

The Butterfly Effect

“It has been said that something as small as the flutter of a butterfly’s wing can ultimately cause a typhoon halfway around the world”. The quote appears on the screen at the opening of the movie The Butterfly Effect. The premise of the movie is that everything that happens in this moment is an accumulation of everything that’s happened before it. This idea is not new and is rooted in Chaos Theory, a mathematical theory which states that small differences in initial conditions can yield widely diverging outcomes. It shows that what was once thought to be the randomness of a complex system is actually a system of interconnections, patterns and feedback loops.  Chaos Theory suggests that all of our actions, no matter how seemingly small, have consequences.

The south Texas brush
The South Texas brush

As someone who overthinks everything, Chaos Theory is quite a mental burden. Replaying every word I said to a jury wondering if I inadvertently biased them, hoping the foundations I have laid for my children send them in a trajectory that keeps them happy and safe, and always second guessing whether I’ve done enough to support my students or if my form of support is not the best approach.  You must be thinking that sounds incredibly egotistical and self-centered within the context of a prolonged mass disaster where people are dying daily.  That the last ten years I have emphasized this is not about me/us but about the conditions at the border, and that is true. What we’ve also seen over the last ten years is no real change in policies at the border that stop or slow the number of deaths. People are still dying in large numbers. The location may shift over time, but the situation is still dire.

South Texas vegetation
An example of the vegetation in South Texas

Our forensic work within the massive scale of need at the border is small. We make a big difference to the individuals and families we directly contact, but after over a decade of work we are not seeing a tsunami of change. Instead, we are always left with questions – Did we do enough? What if we just searched more in that direction? What if we stayed out just one more hour? What if we stayed just one more day? But I do see the tsunami building within the hearts and minds of our young people. There’s over thirty faculty and students from the University of Indianapolis alone that have traveled with the Beyond Borders Team to participate in this work. We also work with numerous other universities and students in the Texas Borderlands. They are experiencing this crisis with a lens and perspective that my generation just does not have. I am able to quiet the questions and the overthinking knowing this experience sets them a trajectory quite different then had they not experienced this.

Remote wildlands
A previous search and recovery operation showing the environemnt in South Texas

This trip will be different. We will be working solely with Remote Wildlands Search and Recovery on large scale search and recovery efforts in clandestine ranchlands. I am excited to see Deputy Don White, Paramedic Ray Gregory, and any other members that may be able to join us. They are wonderful humans that do great work! We lost Eddie Canales, the Director of the South Texas Human Rights Center and my friend to cancer a few months ago. I still expect to see his smile, hear his laugh, listen to all his new stories and get scolded for not improving my Spanish since the last trip. Eddie also contributed to that tsunami, and I know we will make him proud this trip. The South Texas Human Rights Center continues, and you can make a donation is his memory here.

Eddie (male) speaking with the UIndy team about water stations and supplies.
Eddie speaking with the UIndy team (Jan 2024) about the water station route and supplies.

~KEL

Documentary Poster for the Missing In Brooks County

In Their Shoes

It is about a week before the 2025 Beyond Borders Humanitarian Team’s mission to Brooks County, TX, as I write this. I am fortunate enough to have participated in last year’s mission. I have trekked through the heat and harsh vegetation, filled water barrels along frequent migrant routes, and helped recover individuals who fell during their journey. Nonetheless, the preparation for this trip remains as challenging as ever, both physically and mentally. Even now I am haunted by the potential atrocities we may encounter and what the future holds for migrants.

Since last year’s trip, I have done my best to advocate for and educate those around me about the human rights crisis at the southern border. It remains a silent issue despite sharing my personal experiences, providing links to this blog and additional resources, and inviting speakers to discuss the crisis. Brooks County is the site of a large mass disaster largely ignored and hidden in plain sight. After last year’s trip, I felt empowered by the purpose I found and the positive impact I made through search and recovery efforts. However, since returning, that sense of empowerment has been replaced by deep guilt and sadness.

I am not the first to say I am an extremely emotional person. I always have taken the experiences and emotions of others to heart making the written and oral stories I’ve read and heard so deeply disturbing and heartwrenching. It is neither fair nor just that such tragedies occur at the border. Ones in which no one should have to experience. This crisis is a matter of life and death—a stark and devastating reality at the U.S.-Mexico border.

In preparation for the upcoming trip, I decided to rewatch Missing in Brooks County, a 2021 documentary about the human rights crisis at the border. The film highlights the heartbreaking stories of individuals who have gone missing and the desperate efforts of their families to find them, aided by humanitarian groups like The South Texas Human Rights Center, Remote Wildlands Search and Recovery, Beyond Borders, Texas State, and others. Stories of people like Homero Roman Gomez and Juan Maceda Salazar.

At certain points in the documentary, you see conversations where family members send text messages to their loved ones crossing the border—desperate pleas asking where they are, if they are okay, and begging for a response just to know they are alive. The silence is deafening. It’s often said you cannot truly understand someone’s pain until you walk in their shoes. In 2022 I had a similar occurrence with my own family. I will never forget the overwhelming anxiety and terror I felt trying to reach them. I must have called more than a dozen times, left voicemails, and hundreds of messages. Inconsolable and completely in the dark, all I could do was think about every and any possible thing that could have happened. The anxiety making myself physically sick. The difference is that my situation was resolved after a couple of hours with my loved one being found alive and safe. Unfortunately, this is not the reality at the border. The harsh reality is that only a very small portion of missing migrants are ever found alive or dead.

Regardless of opinions or beliefs, the events at the border are not just numbers or statistics. They are real people—real mothers, real fathers, and real children with families who worry about them. I urge everyone reading this to imagine being in the shoes of a migrant’s family. Would you not want people doing their very best to locate your loved one?

I am fortunate to have been selected to join Beyond Borders in helping these families and ensuring that migrants are treated with the respect and dignity they deserve. I look forward to continue providing even the smallest change to the crisis and reuniting people to their families.

Please take some time and watch Missing In Brooks County to learn more about the crisis and work Beyond Borders works to do.

Chastidy