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Interaction with the community of Falfurrias

Bienvenidos!

We had the privilege of working with the volunteers of Catholic Charities at Sacred Heart Church in McAllen, Texas.  McAllen is right across the border from Reynosa, Mexico.  The volunteers at Sacred Heart donate their time and efforts to welcome refugee families that have been released from the Border Patrol Processing Station.  Many of these families were detained for several days, possibly weeks before being released  into the loving arms of the volunteers at Sacred Heart.  Please allow me to take a moment to explain this phenomenal process.

The UIndy family and Sister Pam at Sacred Heart Church wearing teal caution vests
The UIndy family and Sister Pam at Sacred Heart Church

All of the people coming into Sacred Heart are families.  Like I said earlier, these fathers, mothers and children have all spent a number of days in the Border Patrol Processing Station before being released in order to continue their journey into the United States to reunite with the rest of their families.  They are exhausted and disheartened from their detention, and it is the goal of the fine men and women of Sacred Heart to change that.

The first thing the volunteers do is line up for the arrival of these families.  When they arrived we all applauded and cheered to make them feel welcome.  We wished them “bienvenidos a todos” (or “welcome y’all” to my gringo friends) to let them know they are now safely home.  At first the families seemed shocked and surprised.  Slowly they seemed to realize that we were there to greet them and the smiles and tears of joy began to flow.  It was amazing to see these families finally get the welcome that they deserved.

After the families were checked in, they were given personal hygiene products (deodorant, toothbrushes, etc.).  If they had small children they were also given supplies such as bottles, formula, and diapers.  Next we brought the families over to a group of tables and gave them a hot meal.  While they were eating, we asked them what size clothing they wore.  Instead of eating, many of the small children chose to play with the massive amount of donated toys.  This seemed to transform them back into the playful, lighthearted children that they should have always been.  They continued to eat while we “shopped” through the donated clothes in the church.

The room looked more like a clothing warehouse than a church.  There was clothing everywhere, and it was all separated by size and into boys and girls clothes.  The young gentleman volunteer that I was paired with and I were tasked with finding an outfit for a mother of two.  Finding women’s clothes clearly made this young teenage boy uncomfortable, which the rest of the volunteers clearly enjoyed.  When it came time to picking out the undergarments he turned as red as a tomato.  Luckily, a young lady who was volunteering was kind enough to save him the embarrassment, and she picked those out for us.

When the families were done eating, they were taken to the shower.  As a man who is used to digging in the dirt all day, I know the power that a good shower can have.  It is invigorating and it makes you feel like a real person again.  After the shower, the families are allowed to stay at Sacred Heart until their bus rides out of McAllen.  This can range from a couple of hours to any number of days.  The volunteers provide these families with a safe and inviting place to stay until they make that journey.

They work they do at Sacred Heart is amazing.  It is heartwarming to see such care and affection for complete strangers.  There seem to be a lot of tangled threads of fate with the work UIndy does here in Texas.  Maybe it was a coincidence that both this church and the cemetery in Falfurrias are named “Sacred Heart”, but it is hard to shake the feeling that there is something more behind it.  We also had the remarkable luck to arrive on the one year anniversary of this program.  I would like to personally thank them for all of the incredible work that they do and I wish them all of the best for many years to come.

With cake with red icing saying "Happy  Birthday Sacred Heart Center" with a 1 candle

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Justin

Day 3

Day 3 group picture with smiles and three fingers in the air
Day 3

Day three started in a similar fashion to the others. Amanda and Justin went with Sister Pam to fill water stations, Ryan worked with Hailey filling in missing persons reports, and I worked with Eddie to make modifications to the training course that had been requested we repeat on Friday for a wider audience.  When Justin and Amanda returned we worked on constructing new water stations.  The barrels had been painted and drilled and the lids had been numbered, but the poles needed to be drilled in order to construct the long flag poles.  The poles are made from three pieces of pipe of different sizes nested into one another.  The largest in diameter was fitted upon a piece of rebar that had been pounded into the ground. The middle pole had a slightly smaller diameter and was nestled into the larger pole with a screw strategically placed to stop the smaller pole from sliding all the way down inside the larger one. The smallest in diameter carried the flag and was nestled into the middle pole in a similar fashion.

Beyond Borders team members drilling holes into a pole with safety gloves and glasses on

Ramon, a local Falfurrias High School student, was spending his summer volunteering at STHRC and arrived in time to help with this process.  After the poles were drilled, Sister Pam asked Justin, Ramon, Ryan and I to help her repair some of the damaged stations on one of the routes.  Amanda was to go with Eddie to fill stations on another route.  The repairs we needed to make mostly involved the flags and poles.  The long poles bend in the wind and eventually sag to the point that they cannot be seen as prominently as when they are placed upon a straight pole.  So we would take the long poles apart, straighten them and put them back together. We also had to repair a few flags.  I learned from Sister Pam that the cost of constructing a new water station is about $60.  The flags get damaged relatively quickly and cost about $20 a piece. In addition they spend about $50 a week on water. To construct and maintain the life saving water stations relies on donations to the STHRC.

Beyond borders team members setting up a flag pole with a white flag with a red cross on itThat evening Sister Pam invited us to dinner at her house.  When Eddie and Amanda arrived they had an additional volunteer with them.  We learned that this young man came into STHRC with five other family members to report his uncle missing. They had traveled from Las Angeles, CA to Falfurrias, TX because they knew he was last seen in Falfurrias.  His uncle was traveling through Brooks County and stopped to rest.  He didn’t feel he could continue with the group he was traveling with, so he told them to continue and that he would try to get to the road to turn himself in to Border Patrol.  That was a month ago.  They came to STHRC to file a missing person report and go everywhere they could think of to find their family member (hospitals, morgues, detention centers).  The missing man’s nephew wanted to help fill water stations and asked to volunteer. He then joined us for dinner.  He asked us questions about the identification process and told us more about himself and his family.  Then he looked at us and said “It’s sad, but it is life.” It’s hard for me to imagine a kind of life where going missing or dying is almost considered normal.  That statement speaks volumes to the hard life these migrants face.  The actions of this family speak to their strength and courage in a difficult situation.  They traveled to Texas and spent two days going to different organizations looking for their missing family member.  Even though their hearts were breaking they volunteered at STHRC to save others and took time to get to know us and share an evening with us.  After dinner we all watched Who is Dyani Crystal, a film that follows the identification process of a body discovered in the Arizona desert.  It must have been a difficult film to watch considering  their family was in a similar situation, but he wanted to see it to understand more about the journey and the identification process.  Sharing the evening with him was a special experience.  As we said our good byes we wished him luck in finding his uncle.  He hugged each of us and thanked us for helping his family.  What started at as a routine day filling water stations ended with a very unique experience that none of us will forget.

~KEL

Training Day

Today was our first full day in Falfurrias.   Our first task was to give a lecture on forensic archeology to members from the Brooks County sheriff’s department, the local constables, and the justices of the peace.  Our goal was to help inform the local authorities what exactly a forensic anthropologist does, what tools and methods we use, and how we can best help them do their work.

Dr. Latham kicked off the show.  She explained what exactly a forensic archeologist does, which is use classic archeological techniques and apply them to a forensic scene (seems kind of obvious when I phrase it redundantly, right?).  We work slowly and systematically in order to document the context of a scene and we use small tools so that no remains are damaged in the process.  By the end we have systematically removed every piece of evidence from a scene, leaving it looking like a blank canvas.  She continued by explaining that this is how WE approach a crime scene.  We usually have the benefit of taking all day to process a scene, whereas the officers we worked with today rarely even have an hour.  The work that we normally do on a forensic case just isn’t feasible for these authorities given their time and resources… So how do we remedy that?

The answer isn’t simple, but part of the answer is to simplify.  Our work is reliant on attention to detail and proper documentation.  We suggested a number of ways that the officers might streamline their efforts while maintaining as much context and collecting as much evidence as possible.  One suggestion was to photograph every piece of evidence using a scale and a north arrow.  Another suggestion was to take a GPS coordinate of the remains every time.  While most of these suggestions might seem very small, they are incredibly important and a powerful way to document the original context of a scene.  Perhaps most importantly she finished by asking them what works best for them, what problems they face, and what we can do to help.  This dialog was an integral part of this course because the local authorities know far more about the challenges they will face on a daily basis and what it will take to overcome them.

Local authorities standing over the bone quiz, multiple bones laid out with numbers above them.
Local authorities mulling over the bone quiz.

We all did part of the lecture today.  I discussed how to identify human bone and lead the bone quiz.  Ryan and Amanda discussed proper mapping techniques.  Hailey Duecker from the South Texas Human Rights Center also gave an amazing presentation on the best practices that the officers should follow in the field.  Every person did wonderful at doing their part, but that’s the kicker… in the end every one of us plays a part.  Everything we do here in Texas is collaborative and we all rely on each other.  It is the cooperation that is truly astounding.

Justin and Amanda sitting in the judge and witness stand acting out the part!
You’re out of order!
(me judging Amanda after our lecture)

Justin